If it’s not working for you, lose it!
What is that for you? Is it social media? Is a marketing plan?
GETTING RID OF THE WASTE IN YOUR LIFE
Do you have something or someone in your life that isn’t enriching you and instead is costing you more than it’s bringing in? How about an endeavor that you’ve embarked upon? Is it draining you or bringing you down? Are you spending more to advertise than you’re making and haven’t stopped that campaign? Why?
What is it? Is it a partner, a family member, a relationship of some sort? Do you use something every day or pay for a subscription you’ve stopped benefiting from? Is there a habit that you ritually involve in that just isn’t making life easier? What is it? Why haven’t you stopped?
How about social media? Are you exhausted reading and tweeting but can’t stop? Is it tiring? Do you wish you never got involved and find that you’re looking at your phone 50 times a day and it’s getting irritating? How about the benefits? Are you seeing and actually able to MARK the benefits?
Are you on NiteFlirt? Hows’ it going? Are you new? How about advertising a listing on the front page of NiteFlirt or some other service and it just isn’t making you more money than you’re spending? Have you spent hours working/available, and the phone just won’t ring even though customers are clicking on you? LET IT GO! If it isn’t working, why continue?
Have you advertised the same listing with the same theme for months with very little income? Why isn’t it working for you? Why not try something new? There’s no risk.
How about sticking to that theme “I’m not a narcissist so I won’t talk about myself or list any topics I like”, and sit there day after day on the front-page paying for clicks adding that are not making you money?
LET IT GO! IT’S NOT WORKING FOR YOU! AND, IF IT’S NOT WORKING FOR YOU, IT’S WORKING AGAINST YOU! LET IT GO.
LET ANYTHING GO THAT ISN’T A BENEFIT TO YOU.
Making money as a sex worker in phone sex or offering cam shows and selling content is a job. As such it should be 1. making you money 2. creating return long-term customers 3. suiting your needs whether it be personal financial or emotional-if you’re lucky all 3.
Why are you in the business?
Being obstinate or inflexible and having an emotional NEED to define yourself in the world with your phone sex operator persona, social media or with your customers is a dead end and you’d be better off spending time working on yourself. You may be better served by spending time reading self-help books or seeing a therapist. Sometimes, just spending time walking and thinking “why do I feel a need to tell people who I am”?
IF YOU DON’T AND UNDERSTAND WHO YOU ARE, PHONE SEX IS NOT THE PLACE TO FIND IT.
Men who call phone sex lines are looking (mostly) for an escape from their own lives, not to get in yours.
IF YOU SPEND TIME WITH YOURSELF GROWING YOU MAY FIND:
Maybe, you will find that your socially stunted and need to grow as a person and get out and meet others
Maybe, you will find that you don’t yet really know yourself and need to mature a bit
Maybe, you will find that a boyfriend/girlfriend has given a complex and you need to shout about to the ethers of social media where it’s not real and that’s not the way to heal from it
Using sex work can be liberating, don’t get me wrong. YOU WILL GROW AS A WOMAN AND AS A HUMAN BEING but it’s not a replacement for your self-growth. It is a business.
If your marketing plan isn’t working for you…LOSE IT.
If your persona is all about defining yourself and not attracting customers and offering a service to make money and provide customers with their needs-LOSE IT.
LEARING TO MARKET YOUR PERSONA
If you’re confused about what a proper marketing plan is, and you want to actually be flexible enough to hear that what you’re doing isn’t working and why, then contact me.
Just today I saw a PSO who advertised as a strong raw aggressive goddess, but her headline was this
Bruise me, hurt me, tie me up make me black and blue and I will cry for you.
This lack of self-awareness is not only an loss leader in the industry as it confuses potential customers but the phone sex operator herself is confused about who she is from what she’s wants or is selling.
Let me help.
I see the pitfalls many new phone sex operators and cam girls fall into and it’s not necessary to come into the business, spend hundreds of dollars on featuring or running ads and fail.
Contact Me today for a marketing consultation.
What is includes:
Looking at your current persona.
Reading and editing copy.
Offering insights into changes that will make you money.
New listing design if desired.
Helping you find that balance between what you think you know about phone sex and showing you what sells.
Contact Flirt Web Design today.