When a veteran PSO gives you advice, the smartest thing to do is TAKE IT.
When you are a sex worker and you put an ad on an adult platform such as NiteFlirt expecting to be paid, the first things you should do are:
- Read their policies on payment. How much they take from you.
- Read how and when you get paid.
- Then before you make a dime selling sex work online, google their name to find out if they have a reputation for paying. (they do by the way)
There are sites out there that charge as much as %70! Stream mate for example. NiteFlirt is still among the low end of percentages taken from online sex workers. Be grateful.
LASHING OUT AT ME FOR YOUR OWN LACK OF RESPONSIBLITY IS JUST STUPID.
A brand-new flirt who received payment from a customer came into the forums to ask why it wasn’t the full amount he sent. My response was:
It behooves you to find out what this platform takes from you-how you get paid and the policies of the platform.
BEHOOVES: def:
verb
FORMAL3rd person present: behoovesit is a duty or responsibility for someone to do something; it is incumbent on.“it behooves any coach to study his predecessors”
This girl didn’t even look at the payment policies on NiteFlirt before putting an ad on it.
This demonstrates a lack of intelligence or desperation. Either way, it was her mistake.
Then, I get an email entitled, or subject line:
bi***
FIRST OF ALL, A HEADLINE OR SUBJECT LINE SHOULD BE CAPITALIZIED.
Secondly, this isn’t sixth grade! It is a business! I speak in business language when doing business. If she’d said “I lost my puppy” I would have responded in a non-business language. Otherwise, a full-grown woman who cannot take an answer in a business fashion needs to go play with the other little girls on the playground. Obviously, this person has never held a professional job.
Lastly, have you lost your fucking mind? When someone reaches out to you and reminds you that it is YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to find out how you get paid, how much they take and what the rules are on a sex site, the last thing you should do is lash out. The first thing she should have done was, put your palm to your forehead. Duh, I should have done that realizing that the answer to such an important question shouldn’t be left to others.
IT BEHOOVES YOU TO LEARN ABOUT THE SEX WORK PLATFORM YOU WORK ON not other to answer all your questions.
Immediately go to the HELP FOR FLIRTS SECTION of the website and find the answer FOR YOURSELF rather than ask in the forums. There is misinformation all over the NiteFlirt forums. Read the rules yourself. Take an hour to invest in your own business.
But to call a leader in phone sex workers’ rights and phone sex training and a veteran of the site you’re now working on a bitch? That just proves how little intelligence and maturity you lack.
BIG MISTAKE. I am all over that site. Did you really want to make me an enemy? I don’t think so.
I didn’t open the email and turned this idiot into NiteFlirt where I am hoping that now she understands about ‘spam’ and harassment and that NiteFlirt has rules regarding that as well as how they pay and what they take and when you get paid.
DON’T COME AT ME OR ANYONE ELSE WHEN YOU HAVE FAILED THE MOST BASIC COMPREHENSION/RESPONSIBLILTY and duty to yourself and to the platform.