Phone Sex Professionalism

By far the most obvious mistake brand new NiteFlirt operators make is not being professional. 

Well, you say, “I’m not a professional”.  What I mean by professional is acting professional in emails, responding to emails, reading the emails you’re being sent and responding accordingly.  If you receive an email from a fellow flirt, especially when you’re new to the business; she is reaching out to HELP YOU.

I can tell you in one email to a new flirt whether she will make it or not!  Why? Because, if you’re not even reading the emails being sent to you there is no way you can respond effectively enough to get the customer to call you.  If you haven’t taken the time to read the screen name who sent that email-you aren’t invested enough to run your own business.  If you don’t read an email, then you won’t take the time to listen to your callers and you will fail them and yourself.

THAT means you are a NOT an EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATOR.

Phone Sex is about communication.

If there is any one lesson you learn from reading this post, it should be to READ, LISTEN, ASK QUESTIONS then respond.  Every single customer who comes to you will have a very personal issue, want, need or feeling he wants YOU to communicate with or back to him.

When I was new in the field, and this is my 15th year on NiteFlirt, I wrote back almost every single customer with a professional sounding email using basic business language:

Thank you for contacting me.  I look forward to talking to you.  I appreciate your attention…the list goes on and one.

Candy